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The Panacea For All ills: Watching
The Bal
“Watch the ball” is a
phrase commonly mouthed by teaching professionals during most tennis lessons
and dutifully repeated by players the world over as they play in recreational
or tournament matches. This can be as easily witnessed at such hallowed
venues as Roland Garros and Wimbledon as well as at your local country club
or public park facility.
Why is this? How can players
not be watching the ball? How often does the ball rocket towards your
forehand and you move to hit a backhand? Surely this would be a common
occurrence if we were really not watching the ball. So what do players
who admonish themselves such and teaching professionals mean when they say,
“watch the ball”.
Obviously, the physical eyes are focused
on the ball and yet somehow this does not appear to be sufficient to “see”
the ball. How is this possible? This phenomenon becomes easier to
digest when we understand that the biggest obstacle to seeing the ball
clearly is our mind. In order for us to truly understand and
explore this statement, we need to briefly look into the nature of the
conscious mind: its function and the manner of its operation.
The conscious mind functions in
the past when it recalls that which has already occurred or in the future in
the form of hopes, dreams, goals and ambitions. Both time frames are
not real, in that the past has already occurred and is over, while the future
is simply a wish, a projection of what we think we want and need.
Consequently, if we are in this
present moment, the conscious mind cannot be functioning and if the conscious
mind is functioning, then we are not in the present moment. Meanwhile,
the ball is moving towards us or away from us in this present moment.
Therein lies the dilemma. If the conscious mind is in any way active,
if we are thinking about how or where to hit the ball, then it will be
impossible to ‘see’ the ball clearly.
As the ball leaves the opponent’s
racket and travels through the air we need to be present to that movement
until we make contact with the ball. Often, what happens is that
the mind is silent and therefore we are able to watch the ball hit by our
opponent (no anxiety is present during our opponents’ hit, only pure
watching), but as the ball begins to make its way towards us tension often
arises. The source of this tension is invariably related to some desire
we have connected to the outcome or result of our impending shot or to some
fear or doubt related to our ability to hit this shot because of our past experiences.
Regardless, any thought will take us out of the present moment. Simply
stated the ball’s movement is in the present and for us to successfully play
the ball we need to also be present. Any activity of the conscious mind
draws us out of the present and thus will create an obstacle to peak
performance.
So peak performance occurs when
one is in the present moment. However, to be in the present moment is
not a state of being that is easily attainable for most of us, which seems
incredulous because the future has not yet arrived and the past is history;
it would seem that there is no alternative to being in the here and
now.
Being present is a state of being
we cannot actively pursue or engage, but something that happens to us when we
realize that this present moment is all there is and any value lies not in
some goal out there, but right here right now. Once this realization
happens, then all our goals, desires, dreams, hopes ambitions and plans
simply fall away and we are present.
To be contented and completely
satisfied right now is a state of being, which most of us are uncomfortable
with. Many athletes and coaches feel that to hate to lose is a
prerequisite for a winning attitude. In addition, it is felt that
growth can only happen when there is dissatisfaction because dissatisfaction
provides motivation for improvement. However, these types of ideas are
simply false. The pursuit of excellence need not be born from pain; it
can also be stirred by passion and pure love, ‘art for art’s sake’. A
burning desire to win can motivate some players to great heights, but this
type of motivation is a double-edged sword. It can also fester
doubt and fear and most athletes, including tennis players, suffer from these
diseases. It is almost impossible to play from a centeredness and
‘relaxed intensity’ when our motivations are fear-based.
Silence will fall onto a mind that
has realized that “all that glitters is not gold”. The attraction to
things that build or enhance our ego will only fall away when we can see the
ego for what it is, a mere shadow, but not the real thing. Until that
happens, the mind will remain active in order to devise ways to achieve
and become in the misguided belief that these things have
value.
This experience of silence has
long been associated with peak performance in sports. In studies of
professional athletes who have experienced “the zone”, that state of being
where peak performance happens, mention is continuously made of an
effortlessness, of an almost unconsciousness, which ironically arises through
an increased awareness. Many athletes have spoken of how the ball slows
down and appears to move in slow motion. This happens at times when we
are really “watching” the ball, with a completely silent mind. When
that happens we are in the zone. It is not that the ball slows down,
but that the activity of the mind, which blurs our ability to ‘see’, appears
to speed up the ball. In reality, the ball neither speeds up, nor slows
down. The ball is a constant, the variable is the player and more
specifically the player’s mind, which creates both illusions.
Most unforced errors in tennis
are, in my experience, mental errors, especially among advanced
players. When the mind is active we cannot be in the present, when we
are not in the present it is extremely difficult to make clean contact with
the ball. Those players who think before points and after points, must,
during points become silent. It is in silence that we play our best
tennis because it is only in silence that we can truly ‘see’ the ball and how
can we play our best if we cannot ‘see’ the ball.
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